Personal Childhood Web:
My personal childhood web
consists of all family members. My mother is the oldest of 10, my father an
only child. My parents then had 16 of their own. I am the 14/16 that includes
10 girls and 6 boys. There were so many of us growing up that we were each
other’s play mates. My brothers and sisters played baseball, kick the can, tag,
and hide and seek with me plus taught me games they made up. We played cards
together and tricks on our parents. We are all very close, so it is hard for me
to pick just a few for my web.
I have to put my mother and
father first on my list because without them I would not be who I am today. I
am the luckiest girl in the world to have been given them as parents. From my
parents I was taught morals, values, and was given strength. My mother taught
me how to cook everything from scratch including baking. When she was in the
kitchen, I was right beside her. We helped work my grandparent’s farm so I also
learned how to can and freeze vegetables. Even as a very young child, I would
have a “job” in the kitchen alongside my big sisters.
My father worked hard but never
missed a sporting event, he was my biggest fan. I still remember the advice he
would give me after track meets, and he was always positive. My father is
baseball’s number one fan and I have fond memories of going to baseball games
for as long as I can remember. I was even taken to a major league game when I
was about 10; it is something I will never forget. My parents also gave me my
religious beliefs and I do not ever remember missing a Sunday service with my
whole family taking up an entire row.
My sister Terry was more like a
mini mom to me. When I was 3 she had her first child so my niece and I were
close growing up. I would spend part of my summer with them and that would
always include traveling. I was very lucky to be able to go and see all that I
did because of her. She opened up the world around me. Terry still is very
positive and continues to be supportive with me and my children.
My sister Irene always had hugs
for me and when I would spend the weekend with her, which was often, she had
projects planned for me. Irene taught me how to crochet, draw and paint which
sparked a love that would carry on to this day. It was because of her giving me
that interest that I spent 2 years at an art school during junior and senior
years in high school. I still draw and paint today.
My sister Mary was always there
for me. As a young child I remember Mary was the one who took us little ones to
the park. If I was 4 or 5 she was only 14 or 15, but she had at least 5 of us
with her. She did not just take us to the park and let us run wild. There were
always games or activities for us while we were there. Then later when I became
a teenager, Mary became my best friend and she helped me through my “terrible
teens”; she still is my confidant.
These family members along with
all the others have been a constant in my life since the day I was born. They
have been my friends, my supporters, and my family. When we were younger we may
not always got along, but they all helped make me who I am; and for that I am
truly grateful.