Over the past year, I have been dealing with my own racisms
at work from my boss and other co-workers. It has been a very challenging year,
to the point where I almost quit on many occasions. Luckily, I did find support
with 2 other workers and through them we have worked out several of our issues.
However, during the roughest part I could have easily created an atmosphere in
which my anger and hurt from my boss was taken out on my children and families.
I hope that I did not do this, and in fact I am very close to a majority of my
families, but when dealing with the hurt that was caused to me I could have
made any one of my families feel bad because of what I was going through. Because
I am aware of how my own experiences can affect how I respond to others, I need
to make sure that I do not allow my hurt and anger reflect in my teachings and
dealings with my children and their families. I realize that it is not the
fault of the families I serve, and I need to keep separate how my boss makes me
feel and my position as teacher.
Saturday, November 30, 2013
Friday, November 15, 2013
Observing Communication
Since I work in an early
childhood setting, I decided to observe a child communicating with another
adult in a different environment. While I was at the park with my grandson, I
noticed several other young children with adults so I chose one to observe.
With this observation the child I focused on was trying to gain the attention
of his mother. She was talking with another mother and not really talking to
him at first. Finally she stops and asks what it is that he wants. She does not
seem too happy but she gets up and takes him over to the swings. She tells him
she is not going to push him for long and that he needs to find something else
to do. The boy does not say anything to this but you can see how happy he was
to be on the swing. After she is done pushing him, she tells him she is going
to sit back down. The boy waits until the swing stops and then jumps down and
runs off.
What I noticed the most is that
the mother seemed more interested in talking with the other mother than her
son. The communication was not very often or long before she left and went back
to the other mother.
Lisa Kolbeck,
from the media segment this week, discussed how young children should not be
closed off while speaking. She also stated that children communicate in different
ways, many times using their bodies to help with their communication. From the
observation that took place in the park I believe that the mother could have
tried listening to her son a little more and that she could have taken the time
to allow him to express his wants and needs. The mother could have also engaged
more in play with her son at the park also so that he could have felt more
important and respected.
I believe from what I observed
that the child did not feel important and he was disappointed not only with not
having the communication that he tried for, but also not being the center of
play with his mother. As for myself, I know that I communicate better than what
I observed, however there is always room for improvement. I try to engage in
conversations with my children to get them to tell me more. Open ended
questions are a huge part of the day. One problem that I have is the amount of
time spent with each child. In the video segment this week, two girls were
shown talking with Kolbeck. That would be great but I have 17 children and I am
not able to get to every child like that on a daily basis. One thing that I
would love to do is spend that kind of time communicating with each child and
help them with their play. I found that the way she just kept helping them
along with their by adding tools they needed to be the animals was great. This
was a great learning experience for the children because they were not just
discussing things about owls and cats, they were doing living it.
Laureate Education, Inc. (Producer). (2011). Communication with your children [Video
webcast]. Retrieved from https://class.waldenu.edu/webapps/portal/frameset.jsp?tab_tab_group_id=_2_1&url=%2Fwebapps%2Fblackboard%2Fexecute%2Flauncher%3Ftype%3DCourse%26id%3D_4066646_1%26url%3D
Friday, November 8, 2013
Creating Affirming Environments
Welcome to “Child’s Play” family
child care center. My name is Elizabeth Garcia and I will be sharing with you
the vision of my center. I serve 20 families and their children ages 3-5. The
children have several centers for learning and play along with areas that help
promote healthy social identities that help with building confidence and family
pride. When first entering the center, families will find a “Parent News Board”
that not only gives basic information such as daily schedule, menu, lesson
plan, and news letter but also resources for the families. Families can use
this board for their own use too. They can add letters of their own of things
going on in their own lives, up-coming events that they want to share with
others in the community and offer services. Each child has their own cubbies
lined along the wall with a picture of each child along with their name. The
centers are set up so that the “quiet” centers are close together and the
“noisy” centers are together. Each center has labels on the shelves and
containers in English and Spanish and some have pictures of words in sign
language. The centers also have multi-cultural items to help all children feel
welcome and included. The library contains multi-cultural books to help
“introduce differences and similarities” (Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2010);
the art area contains multi-cultural paints, paper, crayons, and markers to
help support this as well. The music area has a “diverse selection of CDs…to
reflect children’s home cultures and languages as well as the larger community,
country, and world” (Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2010 p. 52). The dramatic
play area contains dolls that support girls, boys, and cultures as well as
“clothing and toys for both genders {that} reflects the children’s background.
(Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2010 p. 52). The bock area contains many
different types of blocks along with people figures for children to use for
play acting and expressing emotions. The walls show diverse children playing in
the different centers, different art work or wall hangings that represent
different heritages and a section for the children’s art work to be shown. I
also have a “Share Your Culture” center that contains shelves for families to
bring in something that represents their culture or heritage. The items are
displayed for a month and then sent home and a new item is sent back in its
place. Each family has a time that they can come in and share the item with the
children and explain why it is important to them. My “calming down” center has
a large soft pillow along with small pillows on the floor. In this area
children can explore their emotions by looking in a mirror that is on the wall
above the pillows. Around the mirror are many different faces of children
showing different emotions like happy, sad, scared, frustrated, mad, excited,
tired, and so on. We eat family style for breakfast and lunch which means the
children serve themselves as much as possible; they also help with the setting
of the table and cleaning up when finished. Thank you for visiting, I hope you
enjoyed our center.
Inspirations:
I was really impressed with watching the video segment with
Adriana Castillo and some of the sections that she included into her center.
Many of these things I would not be allowed to create at my own center that I
work at; however, if I did have my own center I would have them. The main
section that inspired me was the Family Culture Share that Castillo has in her
center. I loved this idea and knew right away that I needed to include this in
my own center. Another inspiration that I received from Castillo was the idea
to allow families to use the “news board” themselves. I thought this was
another excellent idea for partnership between the center and families as well
as a type of support for everyone. I like that the board is not just used to
inform parents about daily routines and what is on the menu. I like that it can
be used by the families to inform everyone about different things going on in their
lives or in the community. The calming down area is another center that I was
inspired by Castillo. I believe that this could be a comfort for the children
and I included the mirror with emotions so that they can try to evaluate their
own feelings. I do have a mirror with emotions on it now in my classroom, but
it is by the sink because that is where I was told to put it. I believe it
could be of better use in a center for children to be able to explore their
feelings.
Derman-Sparks, L., & Edwards, J. O. (2010). Anti-bias
education for young children and ourselves. Washington, DC: National
Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC).
Laureate Education, Inc. (Executive Producer)
(2011). Welcome to an anti-bias learning community. [Video
webcast]. Retrieved from
https://class.waldenu.edu/webapps/portal/frameset.jsp?tab_tab_group_id=_2_1&url=%2Fwebapps%2Fblackboard%2Fexecute%2Flauncher%3Ftype%3DCourse%26id%3D_4066646_1%26url%3D
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