Saturday, July 6, 2013
Communication Skills
When I think of effective communication skills I always think of my sister Amanda. While in high school and then in college, she took several public speaking classes. Back then, in the 80's, public speaking was done differently than it is today. She needed to write and give speeches all the time and I would be her audience for her to practice. She was very good at writing and giving speeches and to this day I use her advice given to me about writing good papers and having to give speeches. Even when not speaking in front of people, she always uses proper grammar and looks at people like what they have to say is so very important. If I could model any of her behaviors regarding communication it would be that I can also make people feel what they have to say matters while listening and speaking to them.
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Hi Elizabeth,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your experiences with your sister. Unfortunately, I believe this generation does not receive the formal training we did as students. I also remember taking mandatory public speaking course in junior high, high school, and college. We were trained to write speeches and use proper grammar. Also, I agree with your thoughts about using eye contact, listening, and truly caring about what others are saying.
Thanks!
Cindy Rube
Wow!
ReplyDeleteGreat post Elizabeth! I am glad that you can think of your sister, because when you said that the first thing that came to my mind was " that's right my sister speaks well but sadly does not communicate well."
It is even more impressive that you look up to her with such admiration. I love it!